If it were easy ….
I love training people, I get to test peoples thresholds every day I like knowing that they tried their very best I had two separate conversations this week about training that resonated with me One client expressed her disappointment at not being able to complete a set (yes ONE set) which subsequently lead to a shame spiral My reply was along the lines of 'get over it!' Training is meant to be hard You are not meant to be able to complete everything ALL of the time Another client turned around to me all out of puff and said this stuff is hard hey! To which I replied 'Indeed, if it were easy, everyone would be doing it!' I am not a hard ass with my clients But I will not mollycoddle nor will I BS them I am honest with them If they are not working hard enough they will be told If they are slacking, really I don't need to say anything because the results speak for themselves When training and good nutrition is applied consistently and intelligently over a period of time Results happen But they don't fall out of the sky You work hard for them Changing mindset Changing habits Changing routines All of this takes work And that's before you even get in the gym or out for a run The stuff in our sessions is important but it is not a patch on what it takes to achieve something outside of an environment where I am there by your side supporting you It takes guts And sweat And tears An appetising recipe for success no? But what you get afterwards The smiles The laughter The self confidence The strength Its all worth it Every day that you get out of bed and make a step towards being great Is another day that you are lapping those that are just vegging on the couch watching friends re-runs (not that friends isn't great - - - it so is!) So next time you 'fail' a set think about the rest of the hour of work you just did How does that 'failure' feel in the grand scheme of things? Sure this 3 minute interval circuit has been tough But you just told me that you had a great race at the weekend where you had noticeable improvements in your core, strength and balance That's what I call WINNING Set backs are only what you make of them If you think that missing a set is a big deal, then it will be But think on this... If I see you cruising through a set - what do you think I am going to do to your programme next week? You can be dammed sure that it will be getting tougher! That's called PROGRESS :-) Nicola 'hard ass' Rossell